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Dating a guy who has lots of female friends


I swore it would never happen to me, but it did. My boyfriend has more female friends than male friends. He probably has more female friends than I do, which is pretty sad. I trust him with all of my heart and I have never had a reason to suspect any foul play. He displays our relationship for the world to see and I love him more each and every day.

But why do they flock to him? Most of these girls go to him to help them figure out their mundane life problems, but enough is enough. Especially when you have a stubborn boyfriend like I do. I was always a believer in platonic relationships between the two sexes and I still am. Hell, it has the potential to give healthy insight, but I have an inkling that my boyfriend takes it too seriously. They seem pretty cool and most of them seem to respect our relationship.

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As it relates to dating, a red flag that I don't think should be ignored is If you are seeing someone who has a lot of female friends make sure. He probably has more female friends than I do, which is pretty sad.

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Here's the thing though: I trust him with all of my heart and I have never had. My boyfriend has a lot of female friends. A LOT. If I were sixteen I'd be in a 1. Is your jealousy really about him or is it about your own feelings of insecurity?

of the time, especially when you're young and just starting to date.

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