So before we start this, you need to know about anxiety. Trying to pretend nothing is wrong and attempting to live a normal life when in fact you have the weight of the world on your shoulders. All of the things I am about to talk about we are sorry for. Because of that, we have built up a wall so high it becomes difficult for us to even have normal conversations. We find it difficult to comprehend the idea that anyone could ever love us.
But when we do love, oh we love so hard.
Meaning we are then left alone again because someone left again, but it was all because of us. You probably think that making plans with us is near enough impossible, and to be fair, it is. We want to see you and spend time with you and all we think about is doing cute things together, but then the day comes and the reality sets in that we actually have to do it and it gets too much. Our heads start to spin with what ifs and it sets us into a depressive type state where we just want to stay inside in the familiarity of our bed.
But to us it is so much more than that.
Do I wear make up? But how much is too much?
Will he get put off by my makeup? What if he gets too close and sees the imperfections on my face? And where would we go? What will we talk about? This is just a small insight into our minds.
We need you to understand that sometimes we want to be by ourselves. And sometimes the only way you can see us is in a place that is completely familiar to us, somewhere casual with no pressure.
She will care about you more than anything in this world and will think about nothing but you in anything everything that she does. We are confusing and can have you second guessing yourself the whole time, but I beg you, if you are trying to date a girl with anxiety, please do not get mad at her. Please do not pressure her into seeing you, please do not get annoyed if she cancels or bails last minute or says no to plans.
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