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You can finish the sentence yourself—just insert your Willow creek singles of choice. People of all shapes, sizes and personalities are single, and people of all shapes, sizes and personalities are married.

What is attractive to one is not attractive to another. In the Western world at least, more and more people are marrying later in life or not at all. But God is more powerful than any social force or trend.

Likewise, those who are married are married because God is sovereign. Those who are widowed Willow creek singles widowed because God is sovereign. God is more powerful than our social situations, our looks, our personalities, and our insecurities. I was amazing back Willow creek singles But I need to remember that in fact I am not unchosen.

And at the risk of stating the obvious, if God can create the universe just by speaking Genesis 1 ; if he can cause Pharaoh to let the Israelites go Exodus 12 ; if he can raise Jesus Christ from the dead Luke 24 ; if he can use the purposes of evil men for his good purposes Acts 2: We know that God is love Willow creek singles John 4: We know he sent his own Son to die on the cross for the sins of sinful people.

Our world is decaying because of sin, and there is sickness, tragedy and sadness everywhere. But we are such finite beings. We see so little. So we must look to the cross.

The facts of the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ are the same now as they were when we first believed. If God sent his own Son to die that horrific death in your place so that he can be in relationship with you, and if he did this while you were still a sinner Rom 5: I suppose it is just another expression of that age-old sin of thinking our value comes from how other people see us. Or another friend, who cannot tell me a single positive thing about herself but who is often Willow creek singles thoughtfully supportive of her friends and family.

But that would suggest that our value comes from what we do, which is just as bad as thinking that our value comes from what other people think of us! Someone marrying you will not make you valuable.

Doing things for other people will not make you valuable.

Lie 1: You’re single because...

You are valuable because God Almighty himself tenderly created you—in his own image, no less! This is probably the lie that I wrestle with the most, mentally. I could just get used to my husband, and that would be it. It is true Willow creek singles marriage is a solution to some problems, some of the time. Marriage can be an answer to loneliness. It might mean I can buy my own home. But this particular lie is one of those clever half-truths, where the truth makes it harder to see the lie.

There is actually no guarantee that marriage will fix loneliness. Some married people are incredibly lonely, trapped in awful marriages with no-one to talk to about it.

But we must not fall into the trap of thinking that marriage will fix all our Willow creek singles. This is the dumbest idea in the history of dumb ideas. Thank you so much, Hollywood, with all your stupid rom-coms, for helping Satan blind us with this lie. All you can do is pray, make a wise decision, trust God, and then be faithful to your marriage promises.

Look for someone who loves Jesus.

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Ask God for a husband, but also ask Willow creek singles to change your desires so that you will be open to the advances of a godly man, should they come. The challenge for all of us, in our individualistic culture, is to act like it. Singleness can be a very painful and lonely experience. Perhaps you are toying with this idea yourself at the moment. I know many women married to unbelieving men. Some of these women did not become Christian until after they got married.

Others were Christian and married a non-Christian. Others have watched their Christian husbands walk away from Jesus. But not one of them would recommend choosing to marry a non-Christian while you still have a choice to make. Not the women who still trust Jesus, anyway. My favourite Jane Eyre quote springs to mind here. The man Willow creek singles loves is trying to persuade her Willow creek singles abandon her moral convictions and live with him, even though he already has a wife.

She responds by saying:. If at my individual convenience I might break them, what would be their worth? Willow creek singles them, single life is just too hard and too lonely. To be perfectly frank, part of me wants to just shake them and tell them to look around—there are harder things than being single. My heart breaks for women whose husbands have died. Some families live daily with incredible heartache and struggle because of illness Willow creek singles disability or poverty or tragedy.

They have good jobs. They have plenty of clothes, money and food. They both have comfortable places to live—one has even managed to buy herself a unit. The grief of singleness is real and valid, and it comes from a very normal and healthy desire to be married.

What we need is God, and the perspective that comes from reading his word. Do you know how many calls there are in the New Testament to persevere and endure? This suggests that following Jesus in this world for a long time Willow creek singles not going to be easy. It may actually get even harder between now and when you meet him face to face.

This is why I think there are also so many descriptions in the New Testament of the amazing things God has given us in Christ. We need to keep remembering what they are, because we forget so easily, and they are a big part of the motivation to endure anything and "Willow creek singles" for the sake of Jesus who died for us.

His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love.

For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. For whoever lacks these "Willow creek singles" is so nearsighted that he is blind, having forgotten that he was cleansed from his former sins. Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to confirm your calling and election, for if you practice these qualities you will never fall. Therefore I intend always to remind you of these qualities, though you know them and are established in the truth that you have.

It is not too hard to be single—even for life. You can keep going, because God has given you everything you need. Let us not dare to be dissatisfied with all that the God of the universe has lovingly given us. Let us trust God in all areas of life, including this one. Have you ever felt like you needed more spiritual guidance, or a family outside of your biological one?

One of the requests I get the most in our section is about how we can be more Social together so get ready for the Fall. But more than the how of Getting social lets talk about the why. It is our dream to see the singles in connected to each other, discipling one another and serving together in areas they are passionate about.

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Why is this our dream? Singles need family and often church family is a s close as Singles can get to Willow creek singles. Community is a need for everyone. So check out the events coming up and join us as we help you to connect with other Singles and discover new friends. If church is too much for you right now join us at one of the off campus events. If the type of activities you like to do are not being offered let us know and we will try to incorporate Willow creek singles into the schedule or volunteer to be on the organizing committee.

But folks the truth is. I felt like we were constantly revisiting our purity and it was frustrating, but necessary. We were weak and needed strict boundaries and accountability. We are here if you need us.

How often do you wonder what your peers are thinking about "Willow creek singles" Or do you wonder how they would define sexual purity? All names are fake for the sake of Privacy. Like Tracey, many —including a lot of Christians—are committed to sexual abstinence. Even so, many of these same singles miss the point about other types of sexual activity. Foreplay is OK for a Christian.

There are many other Christian singles, however, who believe sexual purity is about a whole lot more than just staying a virgin. And some of them have, unfortunately, discovered this truth through painful experiences. A couple of years ago, before she met Keith, she Willow creek singles committed to sexual abstinence.

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