Being bisexual means we have the potential to be attracted to people of their own gender or another gender. Some bisexuals, like me, Meet bi be attracted to different genders in a different way; but basically, we are capable of loving more than just people of one specific gender.
Mikey, United Kingdom, age 14 You might find that you like one gender more, or you might not. It depends on you. Irene, Ireland, age Bisexual people have the capacity to love people of their same gender or of a different gender. The strength of these attractions may change over time.
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Meet bi have these relationships with people of only one gender; yet, they still "Meet bi" themselves bisexual. Some people have relationships with people of their own and of another gender, yet do not identify as bisexual. It all comes down to what makes you feel most comfortable and what you perceive yourself to be.
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In the United States, society does not encourage bisexuality, and that can make accepting your bisexuality more difficult. But just like lesbians, gays, and straight people, you are perfectly normal. I find a lot of pleasure in my sexuality. It's a natural part of me and not hiding or changing it gives me a real sense of freedom to be myself.
Yvette, Australia, age 24 It is hard to be a bisexual youth. Most people don't give us enough credit—they think we are too young to know, or that we are going through a phase. Todd, South Carolina, age This is a difficult question to answer. There is no particular lifestyle attached to bisexuality. Bisexual people come in all shapes and sizes, from all sorts of occupations, and with all levels of education.
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Don't let other people's bigotry make you feel bad about who you are. Scott, Louisiana, age Coming to terms with your bisexuality can be difficult. However, many people have difficulty learning to like themselves, regardless of their sexual orientation. Many people also have difficulty understanding bisexuality, and some bisexual people may try to hide their bisexuality. Bisexual youth may experience discrimination and bullying, which can make them feel depressed and lonely.
But millions of other bisexual people - just like you - lead successful, happy lives. It helps to be informed and to know that you aren't alone. Learn what it means to be bisexual. Make an effort to meet other bisexuals - they can be a valuable resource to build your self-confidence. Advocates for Youth has web sites by and for young people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender GLBTwww.
You may wish to visit these web sites. More than 15, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender youth visit them each month; most of them visit repeatedly.
Or, there may be a GLBT youth group in your area. Just remember that there are bisexual people wherever you are. Sooner or later you will meet someone who feels some of the same things you do and has had similar experiences. Realizing that you are not the only bisexual person will make liking yourself a lot easier.
It's a good idea not to come out until you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Don't come out because you feel you must, because people are pressuring you, or because you want to be cool and make an impression. Come to think of it, those are also not good reasons to stay in the closet.
Just take it at your own pace. This isn't about other people, only you. Steven, age 20 I find coming out less difficult the more you do it. The first time is really hard, but it gets easier.
It is also very liberating. I wanted to be completely honest with him about myself and let him get to know the real me. I told him, I fell in love with a woman once. He smiled and said, What a coincidence. Tess, Virginia, age Coming to terms with your own sexuality can be very difficult. In fact, the hardest person you may ever have to tell is yourself! Only tell others when you feel you are ready.
It's not always easy. Some people might be very receptive, while others might not be able to handle the information as as you had hoped they would.
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